chapter 9

difference of depths of conversations always leaves the most impact on me the deeper it gets. my definition of deep ? something of substance. something other than average conversations on who dates who, who stays where, who does what. more on, why pursued this, why think that, how goals are reached , plans and future prospects.

i like having coffee over extensive views on life 10 years down the road. where, why, how. hearing different insights and opinions widens my horizons on things.

i can only do conversations like these with people i find interest in. people i know that are worth the dig. i get turned off easily when conversations are stuck merely around average people, but thats the only way to get the ball rolling.

i met njz a few weeks back for a while. definitely made me miss our circle of friends. it took that familiar normal cycle of questions we always would ask each other to remind me how i missed these strong conversations. not people focused,. talked about things we have achieved and have gone through that taught us a lot about the kind of people we were brought up to be, that made us appreciate the kind of racial mixture we had that wasn't like any other, the set of perspective.

with me, a measure of a great conservation ? you know its a damn good conversation when my phone is on the table instead of my hand.

we had ours over thai food. one of my favorite type of food with one of my favorite type of girl.